Marriage and Finances

Planning for Marriage May Include a Prenuptial Agreement

 If an “I do” is in your near future, you need to make another commitment … this one to your financial planner. Before all the wedding planning and honeymoon booking are complete, a conversation with your financial planning team is also recommended to take a look at how marriage will impact your financial situation.  Two people coming together with unique financial positions can create a number of financial issues to think about and plan for prior to entering this new chapter in life. 

While prenuptial agreements aren’t for everyone, they are important planning tools especially if you or your future spouse have substantial assets, will receive a future inheritance, or have children from a previous marriage.

A prenuptial agreement typically provides direction in the following areas:

  • Assets and liabilities – who brings what into the union
  • Contributions of each partner – will there be special considerations
  • Estate Planning – who gets what at the death of either spouse
  • Division of property – when a couple decides to dissolve their marriage

More importantly the prenuptial document creates an understanding between partners and a roadmap for conducting financial affairs together. It determines how the assets and debts will be shared. It spells out how children from a previous marriage or relationship will inherit and it addresses the financial needs of the survivor in the case of death.

While talking with an attorney about a prenuptial agreement can be a stressful and touchy topic for many couples, the many beneficial aspects are worthy of consideration. 

Laurie Renchik, CFP®, MBA is a Senior Financial Planner at Center for Financial Planning, Inc. In addition to working with women who are in the midst of a transition (career change, receiving an inheritance, losing a life partner, divorce or remarriage), Laurie works with clients who are planning for retirement. Laurie was named to the 2013 Five Star Wealth Managers list in Detroit Hour magazine, is a member of the Leadership Oakland Alumni Association and in addition to her frequent contributions to Money Centered, she manages and is a frequent contributor to Center Connections at The Center.


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Tying the Knot: Have a Financially Harmonious Union

 Before all the wedding planning and guest lists and honeymoon booking there is one major decision … whether or not to tie the knot. Getting married is one of the “big” decisions in life.  Two people coming together with a host of unique characteristics and different life experiences as well as separate bank accounts and financial positions is expected. What isn’t always expected are money issues that can surface after the big day.  In a perfect world, both halves of a couple share the same values and goals when it comes to finances and money.  In real life, it doesn’t always work that way. 

To help smooth the way to a financially harmonious union, it is both practical and prudent to begin by pulling the individual areas of your finances together as one with transparency and disclosure.  This doesn’t necessarily mean a merger; however laying it all on the table prior to the wedding day provides the foundation to move forward with future financial decisions. 

Here are 5 Tips to help avoid post wedding day financial jitters:

  1. Emphasize partnership and avoid the power struggle
  2. Compare and contrast financial preferences focusing on understanding
  3. Create a budget strategy together that prioritizes financial objectives
  4. Dedicate resources to implement highest priority financial obligations, goals and dreams
  5. Acknowledge the need to be flexible by balancing your deliberate strategy with emergent opportunities and challenges

While combining finances with a partner can be a touchy process, the tips provided are foundational for open communication. And they provide direction for those pursuing a transition from individual financial decision making to joint management of finances.


Any opinions are those of Center for Financial Planning, Inc., and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.